top of page
Umbrella Security Services Logo
  • Writer's pictureMaddie Cohen

Why Do People Eavesdrop?

You want to be ethical.

You don’t want to spy on others when doing so would be a breach of privacy.

That said, there are times eavesdropping can be beneficial.

A common take is that listening in on people’s public conversations—or, in the security industry, listening in on relevant private situations—is fair game.

Eavesdropping Is Primal

We’re all doing our best to go after the things we want.

To this end, being hyperaware of what’s going on with other people can help us stay vigilant and protect the things we have.

In addition, by keeping an ear out for what others are saying, we can play the comparison game in a fairly unique way (which experts say is healthy in moderation).

Another Common Reason People Eavesdrop

Here’s an obvious reason so many of us eavesdrop: It’s live entertainment!

Eavesdropping can satisfy our natural curiosity.

It makes sense, right? Overhearing conversations that (seemingly) have nothing to do with us provides a sense of escape. Even if only for a few minutes, we can take a break from our lives and immerse ourselves in others’ challenges.

It’s like reading a good book, watching a movie, or listening to a podcast—only it’s real life.

The Thrill of Listening in on Others’ Conversations

I’m a full-time writer, so it shouldn’t come as a surprise that I find eavesdropping pretty exhilarating.

Not long ago, I found an outdoor table at one of my favorite coffee roasters, and I listened to a woman talk loudly (and in great detail) about her narcissistic father.

More recently, I watched a man scream at a driver who’d rear-ended his car in a local parking lot. No one was hurt, fortunately. And by the time the pair exchanged their insurance information, they were friendly and laughing.

Observing others is compelling. Respecting boundaries is key. But when you’re out in public—in my book, at least—eavesdropping is perfectly okay.

And from a safety and security standpoint, it’s essential in that it can keep us aware of potential threats.

Have questions about Umbrella Security Services—or maybe a story about your own experiences eavesdropping to share? Please leave a comment below or contact us for more information.

1,226 views0 comments


bottom of page